Raising a child is a big responsibility. You can’t just feed a child, bathe them, take them on walks, and reward their accomplishments. That’s not how children work.

You have to make sure they grow up, gain independence, and become well-mannered individuals who positively contribute to society in the future. Although the task may be overwhelming, there is no need to worry. As a preschool in Toledo, Ohio, we have tips that can help you raise well-mannered children:

• Explain why.
  Just like adults, you have to tell children why they are supposed to follow certain rules and avoid doing certain things. This will help them follow rules better because they know that rules serve a purpose. If you tell them not to do something without telling them why, they’re more likely to challenge these rules.
• Praise them.
  Children also want their efforts appreciated. If they see that you take note of their good behavior and their good behavior makes you happy, they will strive to always act their best. Praises give them enough encouragement to continue being polite.
• Follow your own rules.
  If you tell them certain rules, make sure they follow as well. As a daycare in Ohio, we know how our actions and behaviors serve as a greater influence on a child than what we say. Make sure if you ask them to be polite, you exercise politeness as well. When kids see you doing something, they will follow your examples.
• Encourage them to try again.
  They won’t always get it right the first time around. You must encourage them to strive to do better every time. Your support will make them push harder. Eventually, routine becomes a habit.

Raising well-mannered kids is always a partnership between the parents and the school. If you’re looking for a school that you can trust as a partner in raising your child, A Promising Tomorrow Early Care & Educational Center would love to help you out.